thanks guys

I was taken aback by how much it hurt because Cathy hasn't been part of my daily life for years. I felt sort of like a fraud in a way when her death is referred to as "my loss" ....until I started thinking about how silly it is to get possessive about loss. If portions of grief were possessions, nine tenths of that loss would belong to Christian and people like Hildegunde. I'd be doled out a minuscule share.

Anyway, beyond that silliness, I can only imagine how people who saw her ever day and took care of her feel now.. Probably pretty exhausted and kind of blessedly numb for now--I remember that.


  1. Well, it's not like there's some finite amount of loss to go around, and only the closest friends and relations get some. Unfortunately, I guess.

  2. ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

  3. Sorry to hear about your loss.


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