but wait, lemme look up the meaning first. And I want an unbiased meaning of pornography: 1.Sexually explicit pictures, writing, or other material whose primary purpose is to cause sexual arousal. 2.The presentation or production of this material. 3. Lurid or sensational material: " Recent novels about the Holocaust have kept Hitler well offstage [so as] to avoid the ... pornography of the era" (Morris Dickstein). ETYMOLOGY: French pornographie, from pornographe, pornographer, from Late Greek pornographos, writing about prostitutes : porn, prostitute; see per- 5 in Indo-European roots + graphein, to write ; see -graphy Okay, well one and two fit a lot of what I read and write. Three fits a bunch of those covers. There's the brain and emotion involved in romance, you argue. Yup AND that's true for the very best sort of sex, eh? Not just the lizard brain in there for sex and arousal but the whole of the animal kingdom of your brain (not literally! No, please, not the